Love Hurts!

   Let's get down to business! Have you ever heard the phrase:  "only love can break your heart". You hear it in songs and some conversations with love deprived people.
   Love can never brake hearts, it can't hurt, or do any harm to you. It is the only healing power that exist for any ailment of body and soul. This is as true as hate can't fix any harm, or make peace on earth. The belief in this reversed reality is the root of pain and sorrow.
   The heart hurts because of jealousy. Hurts, because it comes from one's desire to own another being or thing. The frustration of loosing the subject of one's affection, or failure to obtain complete control, manifests in real physical pain. And yet it only happens in your mind!
   Before getting into why this is so let's define love! When it comes to us human beings, in true sense of the word, 'love' is only attributed to the realm of the soul or spirit. Nothing else is capable of love. The body is just a shell where love presides, and the 'temple' by which love is conveyed. Love is limitless, makes no exceptions and has no favorites. For love there are no 'chosen' and 'forgotten' ones. You know and feel that love includes: first you, because you can't give what you don't have, and then everybody around you. Love isn't something you deserve, expect or demand. It is rooted in you, were born with it and by it. Your mission is to extend it onto others! Go ahead, try it!
   Does that sound familiar? To those who really love, this isn't new!
   The body on itself is incapable of love. As far as we know it cannot even exist without the spirit.
   But never think that it is less important than the spirit, it just has a secondary role. If used for extending love to other beings it is a wonderful thing. And of course I don't mean 'sex' when I say love.
   A common mistake younger, and yes, sometimes older generations make' is to confuse love with sex. This cannot be further from reality. Sex after love is just a natural progression, but the other way around, most of the time, can and up in failure. Upside down approach is the down fall of most things humanity tries to solve.
   Apply this approach to anything in life, as one strong undivided soul, mind and body! Try reality because only love is real! 
   Those who love know: the more you give the more you have, because is abundant.